Doug & Larry at Wasagaming
Anonymous said: Pt5 I'm just over all scared. Like what if I'm bi but only show for women and never have a thing with a guy down the road. Do I still tell everyone that "hey, I'm gay" asap or just hold onto it the fact until I'm like kissing some dude on a beach during a sunset or heading out for some romantic dinner?? I know that's a lot of info and I'm sorry for that. Just looking for some help for my very frustrating "situation"
Hi there! Thanks for messaging me. I’m more than happy to help. From what I understand, you are bi but aren’t sure if you want to identify as gay? Are you not sure yet? If that’s the case, I wouldn’t worry too much about labels. You can identify yourself as you want, but don’t ever force yourself to have to label yourself. Sexuality fluctuates. It’s happened to me before. As for coming out to your family, you first need to examine the situation at hand, which you have been doing. From what it looks like, most of your family is okay with you being gay. However, make sure that you have a plan b in case things don’t turn out the way you want them to. I never encourage people to come out if they don’t have a plan b or if they don’t have an accepting family.
As for the dating scene, date who you want! Be happy! I wish you the best of luck. I hope I answered your question. Feel free to message me whenever…I’m here for you :)
Anonymous said: Thank you for this tumblr page it is really sweet and given me more courage to love whoever I want as I am gay aswell thank you
You’re welcome! It’s all about spreading the love ❤️
You can be proud of your sexuality and still in the closet for your own safety. Not everyone you know has to know that you’re not straight for you to be a ‘good’ queer/gay. Protecting yourself from homophobes is not ‘contributing to the issue’. Do not come out into a dangerous situation with no support network or without any financial independence. If you think someone might out you, don’t tell them shit.
Couldn’t agree more!